Everyday Act of Bravery #5 – Be Confidently Adaptable

The fifth of Todd Henry’s Everyday Acts of Bravery: Be Confidently Adaptable. In the Army, we used to say Maintain a rigid state of flexibility. It was a cynical phrase for us, an acknowledgement that things are going to change, the changes probably won’t be for the better, and the CO is going to want […]

The Common Denominator in Every Lousy Job You’ve Ever Had

It’s Monday. The weekend is over; time to drag ourselves back to work. Or maybe not. A growing number of us get up full of energy on Monday morning, looking forward to whatever the week might bring and burning to get back to something we think is important and worth our time. Those are the […]

Putting Myself Out There – Part 3

I haven’t felt very courageous lately. My book didn’t make the quarterfinals, but that wasn’t entirely surprising. A Square Foot of Calfskin was a long shot, just like every other book that entered that contest. If you’re interested, you can find the list of quarter-finalists here. No, failing is part of the game when you […]

Nine Ladies Dancing – Taking Time to Enjoy Yourself

Some folks don’t seem to be able to rest. They putter around the house, or the yard, fixing this, straightening that, tidying the other thing. They always have a project, always something that needs doing. They, like the rest of us, never seem to get it all done–but they never stop moving. It’s exhausting just […]

Eight Maids a-Milking – Doing Your Share

There’s a lot of work to do this time of year. Hanging lights, putting up the tree, buying presents, wrapping presents, cleaning house, cooking. And cooking. And cooking. That’s if we’re hosting a holiday gathering. If not, we’re probably traveling to one. Which means packing everything into the car and going, across town or across […]