Most of the time, we choose to fight when we don’t have to. Something makes us angry, our blood gets up, and we lash out. Or worse, we fight to be seen to fight, because we think it will make us look tough in front of the girl we want to impress. Or we think […]

There are times when we have no choice but to fight. There are times when, after all other options are off the table, our best choice is to strike first and strike hard. These times are exceedingly rare, but they are out there: When someone attacks you, and you fear for your life, and you […]